Family

Dr. Bob Barnes and Torrey Roberts: Give Children the Gift of Learning Time Management

Last month I received a phone call from a parent asking my opinion about Play Station 5 and other forms of video games. The mother calling asked, “Don’t these video games become addictive and cause kids to waste many precious hours of time? We bought a Play Station 5 for our kids for Christmas, but I’m thinking about taking it back. I’m also thinking we should not have these temptations in our home.” It is not the devices that are the problem. The problem is some games that children play are very unhealthy and unacceptable. (Pay attention to the rating […]

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Hope Women’s Centers – Creating a Culture of Life

Life hung in the balance on November 5, 2024, as Floridians went to the polls. A coalition of pro-life advocates, including pastors from around the state, had worked tirelessly to educate people on the dangerous and deceptive wording of Amendment 4, a ballot proposal to allow abortion in Florida up to the point of fetal viability – a term they failed to define. “If it had passed, the most dangerous place in the state would be the mother’s womb,” said Rob Pacienza, pastor of Coral Ridge Presbyterian Church. Joy Wright, executive director, and the team at Hope Women’s Centers, faith-based […]

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Dr. Bob Barnes and Torrey Roberts: Turning Christmas Upside Down

“More blessed to give rather than receive?” You’ve got to be kidding! What kind of a statement is that? That’s ridiculous! Of course it’s more awesome to receive than it is to give. That’s what we’ve been taught all our lives. That’s what makes us feel good isn’t it; getting more things? But what if it were true? It’s kind of like eating vegetables. Once I was taught to eat them, I eventually liked them. Then I really liked them. Then I discovered that I felt better when I ate my vegetables. It actually made me healthier than my previous […]

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Dr. Bob Barnes and Torrey Roberts: Catching and Teaching Gratitude

When we think of the month of November, the first thing that comes to mind is thankfulness and gratitude. It is usually the classroom theme of the month and for good reason. It needs to be something that we are intentionally teaching our children.    A special trip I remember my first Summer as a behavioral specialist at Sheridan House. One of the focal points of the summer program was a trip at the end of the summer. The teens would spend all summer working towards the trip. My starry eyed twenty-two-year-old self looked forward to the trip with the […]

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Lisa May: The Significance of Gathering

Like many of you, I had the blessing of attending a wedding recently. A beautiful bride, handsome groom, magical setting, meaningful ceremony, attended by beloved family and friends. I found myself looking around and pondering the decades of friendships framed with the happiest and saddest of days. As the ceremony closed, we entered a ballroom that was like a fairytale. Tables adorned with centerpieces and a wedding feast prepared for the guest. Life’s second most significant commitment, the covenant of marriage, was celebrated by gathering around a dining table. Life’s most significant and life defining decision was also remembered and […]

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Mat John: Families Encounter a Movement of Healing

So far this year our 4KIDS articles have covered stories and ideas around the Hope and the Homes we extend to children and families. These pillars are often our first touchpoint in impacting lives by meeting urgent physical needs. If you’re familiar with the 4KIDS paradigm then you know we bring Hope, Homes and Healing to children and families in crisis every day. That final pillar of Healing holds invaluable truths, depth and transformation that reaches far beyond one singular life.    Healing that multiplies  I’ve spent nearly 25 years now serving with 4KIDS. In my over 30 years spent […]

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Dr. Bob Barnes and Torrey Roberts: Three Invaders to Guard Against

There was a time that a father could build a moat around his family to protect them. If he had the resources, dad could build a trench around his castle and keep invaders out. However, in the past fifty years times have changed and the moat has been breached. The problem is, as dads we don’t realize the magnitude of the invasion. In fact, we have invited the invaders in. There are three dynamic modes of attack that have taken place to the peril of the American family. These invaders, in and of themselves, are not bad as long as […]

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Dr. Bob Barnes and Torrey Roberts: Teaching Children How to Handle their Emotions

This summer I got to take my kids to the new Inside Out 2 movie. It seems to have reawakened discussions of allowing emotions to “take the wheel.” While this movie introduced new characters that come along with age such as Anxiety, Envy and Embarrassment, we were truly shown what happens when one negative emotion is allowed to rule above all others. The emotion that seems most intense for parents when it takes over is anger.   Some children hear the word “No” and they become frustrated or argue. They are disappointed, but they remain in control. Other children hear the […]

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Tewannah Aman: Vote No on Amendment 4

Amendment 4, an extremely grave abortion initiative will appear on the Florida ballot November 5. Many are totally unaware of how deceptive and deadly this initiative really is. It would allow abortion until birth. It would eliminate all pro-life laws that currently protect women and children. And it would allow a minor to have an abortion without parental consent.  Currently, Florida law requires abortionists to give women seeking an abortion detailed information regarding the development of the unborn baby and the potential risks and complications of the procedure. An ultrasound must be performed, giving a mother the option of seeing […]

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Dr. Debra A. Schwinn: How Experiential Learning Can Transform Students into Compassionate Servant Leaders

As we settle into the fall semester, Palm Beach Atlantic University’s (PBA) campus is filled with students eager for what the year holds as they prepare for their future careers. Many students are returning after a busy summer — wrapping up internships, jobs or study abroad opportunities through the Rinker Center for Experiential Learning. In this article originally published in Inside Higher Ed, PBA associate professor of history, Dr. Elizabeth Stice, shares how trips abroad can enhance students’ confidence, understanding of other cultures, and give them an edge on employment. She also highlights how trips like these can help faculty […]

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